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		<title>But I love him!</title>
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			<title>Shaft Camella says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Does haram mean absolutely not or most likely not? Because in some cases I know there is a difference.]]></description>
			<dc:creator>Shaft Camella</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sun, 25 Aug 2019 19:04:59 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>Myera says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I read this a couple months ago while I was at the highest peak of my relationship with a Muslim guy for about 1 year. I was really confused as to what to do. I knew it was haram and I didn't want to displease Allah, but I would give into my emotions and I stayed in the relationship, ignoring this post. I recently returned from Umrah in which I asked Allah for help about this situation. After returning, we got into a huge fight and ended our relationship. I believe this was Allah answering my dua. I just wish that I had made this decision before and not after I got too attached. SISTERS, IF IT WAS REAL HE WOULD MARRY YOU. DON'T FALL FOR HIS WORDS. A broken heart is difficult to return from. May Allah protect us all.]]></description>
			<dc:creator>Myera</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2016 20:56:26 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>Farishta says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Asalam alikom I am 17 years old I met this guy on FB he is 18, we have not met. all we do is chat and i told him to tell his family about me he did. But he said he will ask for my hand after 2 years. I want to tell him to come faster but I don't want him or his family to think wrong about me. What should I do?]]></description>
			<dc:creator>Farishta</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Mar 2016 18:56:18 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>Muslim brother says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Salam, a little about myself first. I am 22 nearing graduation in a great university with a great job lined up for me starting this summer Alhamdula. There's this family friend whose a Muslim sister that I've liked for a year. One day we accidently came across each other and have started talking as friends for a couple months only to realize we had a strong mutual feeling towards each other. We are both religious and have avoided contact for awhile to prevent distractions and temptations. Shortly after, we ended up communicating again, still as friends and we never hang out alone. She's currently 18 and in a good university 2 states away, so it turned into a long distance deal. However, we never considered ourselves as boyfriend/girlf riend or put a title to anything. We both know that her family as well as herself wouldn't Be ready to consider marriage till a few years after when she nears finishing her education. However, we don't want to get caught or be mistaken for doing anything by our parents. But I strongly feel and can be confident that she's the one I want to marry and she feels the same. But, it's hard to wait for a few years without talking once, so we decided that i introduce the idea of marriage earlier, possibly within 2 years. We also are strong for preventing temptation and it makes it easier that we don't live anywhere near each other. I don't know where to go. Do I cut it off and tell her knowing she'll feel hurt? Do we get engaged soon? Do we just keep talking as friends? I have been praying for this girl for 2 years now and I can't make the next decision. Please give me advice!]]></description>
			<dc:creator>Muslim brother</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sun, 13 Mar 2016 05:54:37 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>islamic guide says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[A Muslim guy loves me and wants to marry me we stopped talking because it's haram he wanted to keep it halal, we go to the same school and I know him and how his personality is and he is a very religious guy who is 16 years old and I'm afraid he is going to [censored]et me but if Allah wants In'sha'allah we would get married and have a good life but if not I guess I'm still happy. I don't like the guy but his personality and deen make me not mind getting married with him but my question is that is it haram for him to think about me or me to think about him ?]]></description>
			<dc:creator>islamic guide</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2015 00:16:44 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>fathima says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[i am 17 now i love a boy for 1 year...i said him hw i feel for him...but he said he ll marry the one whom his mother choose for him...but we do talk in phone he says he dont want to miss me but he wants me to wait and ask his mom if she is okay with me then he is ready to marry me he is just 19..i love him so much dat i pray to allah dat i want to marry him .....we are not in a relationship i love him and yea he also love me even this is haram???]]></description>
			<dc:creator>fathima</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2015 14:49:18 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>zikra  khan says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[its a greate problum in my life i love tha boy who is non mushlim but he also love me and he give up evry thing in his realigon. he love islaam and i have tought him the way of naamz and he do so.he wake in the morning and start to namaaz. and pray to ALLAH to got me he is ready to leave evry thing for me and he totally ignor tha non mushlim way . whatever he pray his dua quickly accepted by ALLAH i shocked from this so tell me either its right to do dis or not]]></description>
			<dc:creator>zikra  khan</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2015 00:58:31 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>samar says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[i have been in a relationship for three years. Honestly, i come from a very good family, and none of them will allow me to do this because they care about me. I don't hang out with him we just talk from phone. i want to get married soon because im afraid of what might happen. but i can't tell anyone because they wont let me marry this young. im n[censored]een. :( i fear allah azzawajal, i cry thinking of it.]]></description>
			<dc:creator>samar</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2015 12:30:15 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>sara says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I want prooe from the Quran that its haram to be in relationship]]></description>
			<dc:creator>sara</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:28:29 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>sara says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I want proof from the quran thats its haram to be in Relationship]]></description>
			<dc:creator>sara</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:27:25 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>yousuf says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[study first before love is any time but we must prioritis are study so we can be succesful in life]]></description>
			<dc:creator>yousuf</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2015 09:53:17 -0500</pubDate>
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			<title>Emmad says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[.Am 20 years old . I am in love with a girl since 4 years. But now aftr hearing many stories and khutbah, i'm afraid to be in relation. May allah [censored]ive me, we had spend night twice but not had [censored].So my question is, should i stop in relation with her aftr all these stage ? I cant let her cry because she might think am a cheater or fraud who used to her.But honestly i still do love her. But am confused whethr to continue in relation or to stop it from now.. My frndz knw abt my relation and askd me to stop it because it may create trouble later. But i dont think such would happen. And my family doesnt knw abt my relation . I tried to stop a month ago, but the very next day i couldnt hold it anymore ... But now i need a true path or to know what step i should take further in my life.. And this made me message to you. I hope u understand my situation. If any questions u wud like to ask please help me out. I need to love her in a straight path if it is yes,]]></description>
			<dc:creator>Emmad</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2014 13:41:03 -0500</pubDate>
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			<title>mehak bilal says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[thanks for showing me the right path.I didn't know what to do.I was really confused.]]></description>
			<dc:creator>mehak bilal</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2014 10:59:10 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>muslimah says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Sister, you achieve your taqwa and Get closer to Allah. Don't trust people online. I faced slander and false accusations from a man i met online only for discovering he was married. He took Allahs name for many things which were all fake. So sisters its better to work for your hereafter rather than the love of dunya. I wish to get a husband who takes me to janaah and wakes me up at fajr.]]></description>
			<dc:creator>muslimah</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2014 13:35:47 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>jinsiya says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Subhanallah..th ankz for showing me the right path]]></description>
			<dc:creator>jinsiya</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2014 05:08:28 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>uzma sabeel says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Thanks Allah for showing me right path :)]]></description>
			<dc:creator>uzma sabeel</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2014 03:46:59 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>Undisclosed says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[All the missing insha allah will go away just have faith in Allah and try to fill that void in ur chest with love for Allah with pleasing Allah and insha Allah this will help u overcome it]]></description>
			<dc:creator>Undisclosed</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Thu, 13 Feb 2014 14:49:22 -0500</pubDate>
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			<title>Undisclosed says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[m Leave it leave it for the sake of Allah for your sake for your familes sake for your children's sake in future, don't do something that will hurt everyone and u are not getting anything at the end like you said you know it won't happening then start getting over it fight the shayton defeat him in leaving it u are pleasing Allah ur family and urself at the end and the guy u love on the day of judgment zina is with the eye hand mouth with everything not only [censored] also.. Saying i love you saying I miss you all this is talking haram talking to a non mahram man is haram and will hurt ur family leave it sister.. I been through it trust me]]></description>
			<dc:creator>Undisclosed</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Thu, 13 Feb 2014 14:47:21 -0500</pubDate>
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			<title>Dua says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[we are not bf gf but the thing is we both love each other alot but because we were chatting online and slowly fell in love we dont know how to tell our parents we think we can never get together but we are still hoping i know we shouldnt really talk anymore but i just cant help it because i really miss him btw we never talk about anything haram]]></description>
			<dc:creator>Dua</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Wed, 12 Feb 2014 14:58:08 -0500</pubDate>
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			<title>Nayan says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I AM A STUPID RETARD]]></description>
			<dc:creator>Nayan</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2013 04:33:24 -0500</pubDate>
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			<title>mohammad u says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Subhan-ALLAH what a wonderful reply. It gives a muslim boy and a girl good reasons to stay away from haraam. To the sister who asked the questioned, I say you be patient and do not let his temptation distract you. Wouldnt it make you really happy if some one sacrificed something that is dear to them so that you cna be happy. Now imagine how much happy ALLAH(SWT) will be with you in this life and Hereafter for sacrificing something you dearly to your heart. Be patient my dear sister.Be patient.]]></description>
			<dc:creator>mohammad u</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 22:43:01 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>sk says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ask him to marry you. then will find out his true motives.]]></description>
			<dc:creator>sk</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jan 2013 07:03:25 -0500</pubDate>
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			<title>osman mohamud says:</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Dear Sister; Seems you are mature and you supposed to marry. In Islam no love before marriage if true you are Muslim.If American or European doesn't matter what you do. You had Liberty Statue in New york style of living don't frustrate the Sheiks and people who are reading your articles. For your information love always comes after right marriage. that is the Islamic low.I wish you bring back your IMAAN.Welcome back to Islam]]></description>
			<dc:creator>osman mohamud</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jan 2013 01:49:44 -0500</pubDate>
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