Bismillaah
As Salaamu 'alaykum and Peace to all,
The Story of a Lonely Man and His Pain

I
logged into my email today and found an offline message from one of my
closest friend. As I read her email, my heart sank. She informed me
that she just came back from her usual medical checkup and her doctor
picked up some kind of abnormalities in her blood. The doctor said that
the worse case scenario would be the C-word- you know the number one
killer in this world.
Needless to say, she was devastated and so was I. It was so sudden.
I remembered this Chinese proverb I read only recently that says,
The appearance of a disease is swift as an arrow; its disappearance slow, like a thread
This
is so true. I was as shocked as her family members were. Her day
started normally with just a routine appointment for medical checkup.
It was just something that she had been doing for years. Whenever she
went to the hospital, they would take her blood sample for some tests.
It has always been normal. She never expected that today, it would be
different.
Having seen her going thru various stages of health challenges, my dearest friend made me realized how true the quote below is…
The greatest wealth is health ~Virgil
Indeed
that is a bull’s eye! Even if we have resources to own everything and
anything in this world, but, if we don’t have the health to enjoy them,
what good would it be, right?

For
an example, say we have $1million in our bank account, but, at the same
time, we have a throbbing toothache that neither the dentist nor doctor
could help- would we be thinking of that $1million in our bank or our
poor little tooth that is aching and throbbing causing us feel like
banging our head unto the wall?
Yup, I know most of us are familiar with that feeling.
And
we are only talking about toothache here. Imagine that! What more if
the pain comes from other parts of the body? Sharp stabbing back pain,
asthmatic attacks or migraine maybe? Na’uzubillah.
What about if we fall sick while we are on vacation? Would we able to enjoy it?
Have
you ever experienced food poisoning right after a good hefty meal? I
just did. Believe me, the enjoyment of eating was immediately erased
from my memory and all that I could remember was only the tiredness of
my physical body.
And believe me, if there were a
frequent-visitor points to the ladies, I sure would have won a free
trip around the world! And of course, not to forget, the
twister-cum-tornado kinda havoc in my tummy! Yup, compliments from the
germs I ate! Oh Goody!
Without a doubt, health is indeed a
blessing from Allaah we often forget to thank Him for. In fact, our
beloved Prophet SAW has reminded us of how we, human, have the tendency
to waste two of the blessings that were given to us…
Narrated
Ibn ‘Abbas: The Prophet said, “There are two blessings which many
people lose: (They are) Health and free time for doing good
(BukhariVolume 8, Book 76, Number 421)
This
hadeeth made me reflect on how I have ‘treated’ the good health that
Allaah has blessed me with all these years. I felt so embarrassed that
I have not been giving ‘it’ its deserved attention. I took my health
for granted. I go through the days without the slightest thought given
to ‘it’. Ya Allaah, how right is my prophet SAW…
What did I do
during my healthy time? Did I study or I waste my healthy time by
playing endlessly, by sleeping late, by hanging around with bad
companies, by playing video games, by chatting for hours, by watching
movies, by ignoring the helpless and weak, by wasting my youth? Or did
I fully optimize the blessings of my health?
Here is the deal.
If we are healthy, we would be able to perform our duties and
responsibilities towards our Lord, our family and ourselves in a better
manner, right?
We would be able to pray standing instead of
lying down and gain better rewards, we would be able to work thus
giving us opportunity to do charitable acts such as donating to the
poor, we are able to study better and inshaAllaah pass exams with
flying colors allowing us to get good jobs and then take care of our
parents better in their older days, we are able to help other Muslims
who are less fortunate and inshaAllaah, earn rewards accordingly and so
many more things.
All these could be achieved more easily if we have good health, right?
As
I replied her email I reminded her of the words of our dearest Prophet
SAW which could bring peace and serenity to our distressed hearts…
“Whenever
a Muslim is afflicted by harm from sickness or other matters, Allah
will drop his sins because of that, like a tree drops its leaves”
(Al-Bukhari and Muslim).

As
I pondered this hadeeth, the image of leaves falling during pre-winter
time runs through my mind. SubhanAllaah, imagine if our sins drops just
like the leaves! Isn’t that just wonderful? Reflecting on my own
weaknesses, this hadeeth made me feel like saying to the thorns on
roses to prick me or the invisible germs infect me!
Ok, that would be too much, I know. But, the silly girl in me would think its a rather cute proposition!
There is another hadeeth of our Prophet SAW that says
“A
Muslim is not afflicted by hardship, sickness, sadness, worry, harm, or
depression—even if pricked by a thorn—but Allah expiates his sins
because of that” (Al-Bukhari and Muslim).
SubhanAllaah.
I
felt like crying when reading this hadeeth. Our beloved prophet SAW has
time and again shown us how Merciful our Lord is, how forgiving He is.
Allaah the AlMighty forgave us simply because a thorn pricked us? Can
you imagine that? If we get a flu, just a flu, He would expiate our sin
because of that?
SubhanAllaah… So much Love. So much Love. So
much Love! And what did I do? Was I thankful to Him? Ya Allaah…. Aseef,
ya Rabb, aseef….
I told my friend to always remember Allaah in
her heart because that is the only way that her distressed heart could
find peace as told by Allaah in His verse below…
Those
who believe and whose hearts are set at rest by the remembrance of
Allah; now surely by Allah's remembrance are the hearts set at rest. (
13:28)
I also found this perfect hadeeth that
could be use by my friend, myself and any Muslims on how to reduce any
pain we felt, inshaAllaah.
It
was narrated from ‘Uthmaan ibn Abi’l-‘Aas that he complained to the
Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) about a
pain in his body that he had suffered from the time he became Muslim.
The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
said to him: “Put your hand on the part of the body that hurts and say
Bismillaah (in the name of Allaah) three times. And say seven times:
A’oodhu Billaahi wa qudratihi min sharri ma ajid wa uhaadhir (I seek
refuge in Allaah and His power from the evil of what I feel and worry
about).” Narrated by Muslim, 2202.
I am so
determined to memorize this short prayer that my beloved prophet SAW
has left me with. InshaAllaah, I am able to use it the next time I
might possibly ‘earn’ more points on my frequent-visitor reward!

I
once read this beautiful poem about a man who was in pain, about his
feelings, his fears and his hopes written by Dimitri Shostakovich . Let
me share it with you…
When life becomes a sea of pain
And every moment agony
I must endure again, again,
It is a curse to have to be.
And every moment agony,
And every longing fixed on death;
It is a curse to have to be
And fight by instinct for each breath.
And every longing fixed on death
Even as I must go on
And fight by instinct for each breath,
Sailing thus, though loved, alone.
Even as I must go on,
You watch me helpless from the shore;
Sailing thus, though loved, alone,
I need you with me all the more.
You watch me helpless from the shore
As I endure again, again;
I need you with me all the more
When life becomes a sea of pain
Such
a deep poem, don’t you think so? I read it again and again. And the
more I read, the more profound I felt of the meaning of the poem.
We
always say that life is like the wheel. It gives all surface equal
shares to ‘taste’ the air and the road! To feel how it is like to be at
one of the four sections of the wheel.
So, before my side of the
wheel comes down to the surface of the road and gets rolled, I am
determined to take full advantage of the air around me, inshaAllaah.
From
this point onwards, I know that I must take the best care of my health
possible, inshaAllaah. I also aim to take the most advantage of my
current good health.
What about you my friends? What do you do during your good health period? Which part of the wheel are you at this moment?
If
you are up in the air, then hurry! Take advantage of it. But if you are
at the bottom, then be patient because you are earning brownie points
that way, inshaAllaah.
So, no matter which part we are, we all know that its all good. Ameen…
Sis Zabrina
Now blogging at http://www.wisdomthruwords.blogspot.com
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