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The Story of An Empty Frame - A Motivational Story about Doing Things As And When

Recently
I had finished a task which was supposed to be completed sometime ago.
Alhamdulillaah. The feeling of relief that came after performing the
much awaited assignment was absolutely incredible. It was like a heavy
burden suddenly being taken off my shoulder. And at the same time, my
mind was immediately freed from having to constantly thinking about it.
Alhamdulillaah. At last!
Being born in a free country
and had never known what suppression meant, for the first time I could
actually taste for a bit what freedom and liberation felt!
Ok, it’s an exaggeration at some level, but I really do feel good about it. Really good. Alhamdulillaah.
That
very feeling of relief (yes, that’s you young reader!:)) ) had me
thinking. Why didn’t I finish off the work earlier? What was stopping
me from putting that much awaited full stop to that task? Why did I
choose to have the dot-dot-dot for a long time instead of getting that
one absolute, definite and last dot; and put an end to all the
potential dots?
I tried to think of the reasons of why I kept on postponing that one particular task.
Then, it occurred to me what I was doing. I was a, get ready for this – a procrastinator!
Yikes! I never thought I could be one, but, I think I just was!
I felt so foolish remembering this one quote by Baltasar Graciánn …
The wise man does at once what the fool does finally.
Yup, I know! This very quote had made me felt like kind of silly. It really does.
Mr.
Graciann is totally right. If I had finished off the task as and when I
received it, I could have saved myself from so much headaches and
perhaps heartaches too. And get to become a wise person for once!
But
silly me for listening to the whispers of the procrastinator-in-me and
decided to put off doing that particular task. Thus, landing me on the
much deserving title of a fool! Astaghfirulllaah.

All
these while, it had always made sense as to why that particular task
was not included in my things-to-do-today list. It was always that
other things are more important, crucial and critical to get done as
compared to this one task.
This was when I remembered reading the words of the Prophet SAW when he said…
"Lose
no time to do good deeds before you are caught up by one of seven
calamities awaiting you: a starvation which may impair your wisdom; a
prosperity which may mislead you; an ailment which may damage your
health; an old age which may harm your senses; a sudden death; the
Dajjal (Antichrist); or Doomsday, which is indeed the hardest and most
bitter." [at-Tirmidhi, al-Baihaqi]
Astaghfirullaah.
His advice to me is absolutely true. I knew I should have had the
urgency to perform that task before any obstacles as above arises.
I
felt so thankful to Allaah that none of the seven calamities actually
‘visited’ me during my procrastination period. If it did, I can tell
you that I would be the sorriest person on earth!
As I
pondered upon this hadeeth, I knew that I needed to find a remedy of
how I could be a more energetic person every single day of my life and
could leave the habit of procrastinating for good. I need help. I know
I do.
Then, I found this hadeeth of Prophet SAW on how to get that much needed zest in my life.
It is recorded in Sahih al-Bukhari that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said,
"During
your sleep, Satan ties three knots at the back of your Decks. He
breathes the following into them, 'The night is long so keep on
sleeping.' If the person wakes and praises Allah, then one of the knots
is unfastened. And if he performs ablution, the second knot is
unfastened. When he prays, all of the knots are unfastened. After that
he will be energetic and happy in the morning. Otherwise he would get
up listless and grouchy."
SubhanAllaah. I knew
already that there are blessings in waking up in the morning. But,
there is actually a technique given by my beloved Prophet SAW once I
wake up.
This is what I should do-
First, praise Allaah
when I wake up. I mean, the moment I wake up, I could say SubhanAllaah,
Alhamdulillaah and Allaahu Akbar. Hmmm, I can remember that,
inshaAllaah. It's pretty easy to do, right?
Then, I should get
out of bed and splashed that cold water unto my face. We all know how
good and refreshing it feels like after taking ablution, you agree?
Then,
right after it, I should stand on my two feet, face the direction of
Makkah and make a two rakaah prayer and ask for His Blessings for the
day.
That sounds very doable, right?
I think all that would take less than say, maybe 10 minutes?

That’s
when all the knots would be opened, SubhanAllaah. At this moment, my
Prophet (SAW) said that I would be feeling energetic and happy!
Energetic and Happy! InshaAllaah!
So, what is a spending10-minute early in the morning if it means that I would be able to feel energetic and happy, right?
Think
about it! Just 10 minutes and whollah! Chirpy, happy, energetic, alert,
bright, joyful, cheerful would be all ME! MashaAllaah.
I can do that. All that I need is just 10 minutes.
However,
if I decided to listen to that the eerie whispers of satan that says
“The night is long so keep on sleeping… keep sleeping…keep
sleeping…keep sleeping…hahaha” (ok, sorry, I got carried away) instead
of the promise of my Prophet SAW when he said “… be energetic and happy
in the morning…” , if I decided not to take wudhu and pray to my Lord
and not to spend that 10 minutes, then, it means that I have decided to
trade my 10 minutes potential happiness with a day of lifeless,
grouchiness, lethargic, grumpiness, irritableness and all other yucky
attributes! Astaghfirullaah.
It means that I have made that choice. Not others. Me. Na’uzubillaah, right?
No thanks!
So, by just spending a short 10 minutes, I have chosen to be a delightful happy person for the day, inshaAllaah.
Let
me share with you something which I found that explains how ridiculous
I was as a procrastinator. Just look at the picture below…

Funny, isn’t it? I felt that the picture frame is me at some point of time.
I
do realize that I have some empty frames which are waiting for some
pictures. So, I have decided to put some pictures into them right now.
Not later, now.
I am so determined that from now on, every
time I feel that I am slipping into becoming one lazy procrastinator, I
would reflect on the picture above. And I am going to paint some
pictures that are worthy of my frame.
First of all, let me go
and look for all the empty frames I have been secretly hiding from
public’s view. Ahh…I found one already. Let me get a brush, apron and
lots of colors.
What about you my friends? Is procrastination
your middle name? Perhaps not all the time, but, sometimes? Are there
any of your picture frames which are empty? Do you hide any empty
frames in your closet like me? Do you think it's time to take them all
out now?
I am sure you already know what pictures should go with your frames right? Why not fill the empty frames?

Hey,
I have an extra brush. Wanna do this together? Here, this is the brush
and an apron for you. I can throw in the painter’s hat if you need one
too!
Let us fill up our frames with beautiful pictures and be a great painter ourselves!
As how Pablo Picasso once said,
Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone.
Wow… time to reflect, don’t you think so?
Absolutely!
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